What’s the Best Way to Show Your Wife That You Love Her?


UPDATE: Jon won this one, so I watched 3:10 To YumaΒ with him, since that was his “prize” for winning. πŸ™‚


EPISODE 1: What’s the best way a husband can show his wife that he loves her?

Lindsey says: He should ask her how she wants to be loved. Most people show love the way they want to receive love, so they could totally be missing the boat on how to best love their spouse.

Also, planning goes a long way. When your hubby schedules (and keeps) time for date nights, talking, romance, sex, sleep, etc., it makes a wife feel loved and valued. πŸ’—

Jon says: You have to know what makes your wife happy and what makes her feel loved to be able to deliver. You might also consider what sheΒ doesn’t love, since those can steal from the joy you’re trying to bring her.

For instance, Lindsey doesn’t like spending a lot of money on things, so I have to be careful most of the time.

But she loves personalized gifts, things that require thoughtfulness (and time). She also loves nachos, molten lava cake, Reese’s peanut butter cups, surprises, peonies, 1-on-1 time, and very nice, large hotel rooms.

So if it were me, I could pick one or all of those things to show her how much I love her. I’d have toΒ GrouponΒ the hotel to show her I planned and saved money, but the goal is to see her smile because she knows I made her my priority. That’s what Valentine’s Day (and frankly, marriage) is all about.

This Week’s Prize: 🀞🏼
If you VOTE FOR ME: Jon gets to watch aΒ HallmarkΒ movie with me.

If you VOTE FOR JON: I “get” to watch 3:10 to Yuma with him. πŸ’œ

The Deets:

The Hubster and I are starting a weekly dating challenge in the hopes of encouraging married couples to prioritize date nights.

How it works:Β 
Each SATURDAY we will post (on Instagram), something related to being married, dating your spouse, romance, etc. Jon and I will state our thoughts. Your votes in my stories poll determine the winner. Each Sunday the winner will be announced & prizes awarded (to either me or Jon).

The prizes are meant to help us love each other better.
Please vote in stories and comment below.

To follow along and play or vote for your fav’s, follow us on IG: @mrs.lindseygraves & @mr.jongraves.

Until our next date night…


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