Valentines Day Date Night Idea for Married Couples! XOXO

This Valentine’s Day, let’s kick things up a few notches. This article is for married couples only, this is not for singles looking for a fun date night idea to go on with their Beau.

One of the best Valentine’s Day dates that Jon (my hubby) and I have ever been on was when we went to Tender Greens and I showed up with a bunch of questions and paper for both of us to write our answers. At first, Jon, was very skeptical about how answering a bunch of questions would be fun, but as he heard the questions, he was totally into it, and I think you and your spouse will be too!

Wives, one of the easiest ways to arouse your husband is to tell him how much pleasure he brings you sexually, and the easiest way to show him that you love him is to tell him how much you admire and respect him for all he does for you and your family.

Husbands, one of the easiest ways to help your wife open up to you sexually is to admire her – notice all the cute and quirky things she does and express that you love those things about her. She wants to feel loved, beautiful, desired, and appreciated. Most wives wish their husbands would think about her throughout the day – think of ways to help her, the kids, etc., and notice all the hard work she does.

These Valentine’s Day Date Night Questions will pretty much help both the husbands and the wives communicate love, admiration, adoration, and arousal with each other. Without further ado, here are the questions to print out and take with you on your Valentine’s Day Date Night!

Valentine’s Day Date Night Questions:

1.) What was the sweetest or most thoughtful thing your spouse has ever done for you?

2.) What was the best foreplay position you’ve liked so far and why?

3.) What’s your favorite anniversary that you’ve had so far and why?

4.) What would you say is the craziest place you two had sex together? Are you interested in trying that again soon?

5.) What’s the most embarrassing thing you’ve done around each other?

6.) What’s your favorite sex position?

7.) What’s one thing you’d like to do with your spouse each day to show them that you love them?

8.) What is the sexiest thing about your spouse?

9.) When is the last time you gave your spouse a strip tease? Would you be open to doing that soon?

10.) What’s your favorite thing to hear while you are having sex with your spouse?

11.) Write down all the rooms in your house where you’ve had sex in with your spouse.

12.) What room would you like to try next?

13.) When was the last time you guys had a quickie in the middle of the day? Would you be open to trying that soon?

14.) What is one thing I can do to make sex more enjoyable for you?

15.) If you don’t go on weekly date nights, what on your schedule can you move around to make it a priority? Pick out a day/time that is best for you guys and put it on the calendar.

16.) Do you like planning date nights? Would you be open to planning them if your spouse agreed to go on them with you and have a great attitude about it?

17.) Do you have a sitter lined up to help make it easier to go on date nights? If not, brainstorm with your spouse about who might be a good option, and if needed, reach out to friends (later) and ask them for their sitter’s info.

18.) When was the last time you took time off to stay at a hotel or have a staycation? Would you be willing to do this soon? Would you be willing to do this quarterly?

19.) Wives, what can your husband do tonight to help you get in the mood?

20.) What’s one new sex position, foreplay, or location that you both are up for trying tonight when you get home?


I hope you love these questions, and I hope it helps spark some new romance and excitement between you and your spouse.  I’d love to hear how your date night went and if anything you talked about had a lasting impact on your marriage!

Follow me if you’re looking for more fun date night ideas. Each week I’ll be sharing our date night highs and lows to hopefully encourage you to go on more dates and have fun dating!