It’s hard to put into words what happens in your mind and body when you see that guy from across the room, have an awesome conversation, or go on a fun date. What is it that creates the chemistry that makes your heart leap, your hands sweat, and makes your stomach turn by just being around the person?
Why do you want to go on another date with one guy but run from another? I think that chemistry is more than just attraction; I think it can be something deeper.
I love to help introduce my single friends to other singles in hopes that they will meet and marry the love of their life. So far, I don’t think I have been very good at it but I am hoping to improve my statistics. If anything, I think that simply meeting new people is good for singles. Getting out there and creating opportunities for you and your other single friends to meet a new hottie, how could this be a bad thing!
After introducing a guy to one of my girl friends, I follow up the next day. The story is always the same… one person was interested and the other was not. What the heck! There are so many singles out there. Why does it seem that “all the good ones are taken” or when you do meet a nice guy, there is no “chemistry” between you?
F.Y.I., “all the good ones” aren’t taken. I have wonderful friends who are single and still looking for the right person. But if the chemistry isn’t there, and they aren’t “feelin” it, they of course move on. But I wonder if there is a way to help create more relationships that have that “chemistry” that everyone desires.
Hmm… Well, if I figure something out, I will be sure to share it with you!
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